This is not a UNISEX world.

August 28, 2015

I know the percentages of those unique humans who actually do feel differently than most men and women. Each of us is unique in our own way, and we are supposed to believe, in my estimation, everyone has a right to choose, and a right to love!

However, I won’t shop at Target any more. Because of “complaints” from a minority, Target is now putting merchandise into a unisex product arrangement. Give me a break. Whether some have forgotten, the MAJORITY of humans were born either as a man or a woman – in mind, body and spirit. There is a definite difference in the two characters.

I fear now with Hollyweird and the media, a little boy might think “I must be gay because I like to play with baby dolls and house.” What about a little girl thinking she might be lesbian because she thinks other girls look so pretty and she loves them.” Or a little girl might think, I must be a transvestite because I like to climb trees and dress up like a princess.”

Granted, each person must choose – and I am no one’s judge, but there is an evil force in the world that is trying to tip the scale to make us all upset!

Don’t you think the EVIL in this world loves to CONFUSE US? I don’t care what you call that spirit – there is a cover of evil that is enveloping this planet and the humans that reside on it. In my heart I believe there is a straight line from Hollyweird to Washington, DC. (I am not saying everyone in both areas is corrupt, but think about it).

There isn’t one thing you can’t see in a movie. Not one thing. Murder, deceit, perversion, torture, rape, theft, and the list goes on and on…alcohol being pushed, not as a drink, but as a glass with two straight shots. Cigarettes, visual on how cool it is to be drunk or shoot up. Think about it. I am right on this.

The line shoots directly to our politicians and leaders. Cheating, lying, and all that Hollyweird offers is done by our leaders (and most leaders around the world). They promote racism, division among the commoners…that’s important. Plant seeds of hatred and jealousy.

The one percent – the rich – why they all must be corrupt because they have money. Whether they earned it or inherited it – they have to be evil! If it were YOURS would that make you evil?

I could spend the day pointing out where they have subdued the passions of right and justice; but I count my days as precious. Just keep in mind, as wonderful as technology is, it has separated families, presented pornography to everyone who can run a computer, and through the addictive nature of it, keeps people from enjoying nature, enjoying others, and even those closest to them.

Picture a street filled with people and 95% are on their little phones. They sit at a park bench and pull out their laptop or ipad. When they go to the office they sit in front of a computer all day, or manage to be “connected” on some kind of technology – like your arms are to your shoulders. What the hell is going to happen when they drop that bomb….you know the one I am talking about don’t you?

People will freak out. Unisex started this rant, and I could go on. Why do I write instead of “going outside or doing what I suggest?” I will. After breaking my back and my neurosurgeries, it is necessary now to put heat on my back and elevate my feet until my pain subsided, and now I am able to enter the world I live in now – it’s much smaller – but I will, trust me.

Trust God too or we’re all through. I will never deny what I know to be true, but I will stand with others who share a love of God, and together we can put on the armor of Him who loved us first.

PUPPY

August 25, 2015

When I first got our new puppy, at 9 weeks old, our five year old was very jealous. She still may be at times, but she also loves Axel, and worries when he isn’t with us…I know dogs aren’t supposed to think like us, but since I broke my back (and before) I have spent 24/7 with my Dakota and the puppy.  They have wonderful emotions and understanding English too!

Back to the photo.  Axel is now 8 months old and they are inseparable.  This is how the puppy got to Dakota…..I call the photo “Bonding”.  I love this shot of Dakota.  She was never a mommy but she is a tender spirit.bonding

A Tad of Negativity – only a tad (small amount)

August 13, 2015

Aren’t you excited? Everything must be okay – isis  (I never capitalize anyone or anything I have no respect for)  must be under control! Why would the president be in Martha’s vineyard playing golf, otherwise.
Is the one year anniversary of the death of a bully, who beat someone up that day (did you see the video), and then stole, and really was the bad one, a celebration or a mourning? The officer was doing his job. I know there are some really good officers, and some corrupt, as within every area of business. (Politics, for instance.)

Let’s go a week without ANY police on duty in the country. What do you think? It would be a good eye-opener for sure.

Another celebration here in CA. If you are a prisoner and you decide you want to be transgender, no worries – it will be paid for completely. Then of course the jail will have to transfer the transgender to an appropriate facility. A judge in San Francisco decreed that law into life.

But let a senior citizen try to live on social security, or pay for their own glasses and teeth (because these things are not covered), and the point of it all becomes mute. Except for the evil laughter of the few who govern us all.

I know we are all supposed to cut down on water. Do you think moonbeam (the governor – what’s his name) does? How about prisoners? You know they have more rights and benefits that senior citizens, many whom who have dedicated their lives to working hard and being a good citizen. Does that make everyone happy….not from what I hear neighbor to neighbor, and in the markets, and all around where the peasants live.

You know why Trump is so popular now – don’t you? You do, I know it. He is not a political mastermind (thank God) – he just knows he won’t back down or take any BS from anyone. He doesn’t have to curtsy for those who donate money to campaigns. He may not be “politically correct” but he is refreshing and I cannot help but like him.  He can’t be bought, and obviously thus far, he can’t be hushed into submission.

Please – I lived through the Kennedy clan rule – think about it before you vote for another Clinton or Bush.  Enough is enough.  I would RATHER have the Donald before either of them – even Donald Duck would do.

Regarding Megan Kelly-she did attack him and it was not a question that was anything but aimed at making him look like a fool. I don’t know any man who hasn’t said something about a woman at one time or another – that doesn’t mean he is a woman hater. Frankly I don’t know any woman who hasn’t said something negative about a man at least once. Comes with the gender differences……..

OH THAT’S RIGHT – a few people complained and now Target no longer has a boys section and a girls section…..every thing is going to all be mixed together to be neutral “to be fair”.

Throw-up, puke, hurl, vomit, yuk, I am so sorry to enlighten these folks – but really (with rare exceptions) humans are born BOY and GIRL, with matching parts. Let’s REALLY confuse the little ones. If they aren’t “different” let’s mix them up so much they don’t know who or what they are – for sure!

There is a bit of boy and girl in all of us!  DUH!  I am a peasant princess but I loved to climb trees and play hard.

I remember in the old movie with big brother – 1986 (written way prior to that) – all men and women had cubicles to work in and they all dressed in a neutral kind of gray color. They all were separated by big brother making sure they were so busy with work and then drinking booze to relax – no relationships were bonded.

Lastly, I just want you all to know I should have copy written the name YEARS ago when I began to write my blog. If you just look up “Relax, it’s just Life” – a man has written a book (think 2012) and has taken the name as his own. Oh well no one REALLY owns anything except their own thoughts and actions.

So OWN yourself today, and as Dan the Man says, CREATE a beautiful day for you and those in your circle of life…be it a small circle or a large one. A small light in the darkness can change everything.  Insist of a great day and small through all the BS…all of it really isn’t important in the long run.  Insist on FUN.  My sis and I used to pretend everything was a Saturday night live skit.

It really does put most things in a better prospective!

Addendum:  I am terrible at using tags and categories…I just seem to go blank when I do that! I know it is important.  I will work at it!  Now a lovely Hawaiian Orchid for your pleasure.

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Addendum to stem cell miracles – clarity

August 8, 2015

Just to make sure anyone who reads this understands this procedure will use MY OWN stem cells to heal my body.  I know there have been some negative things regarding procedures….but to provide clarity – I use my own body to heal my own body!  (Very cool isn’t it?) I want so many people in pain to at some point (when this procedure is more accepted) – heal!  God bless you all!

Stem Cell Miracles

August 7, 2015

For years I taught fitness, health, stress management and relaxation techniques.  In hopes of helping people stay vibrant, healthy and happy I put my heart and soul into my work.   I have also spent much of my time writing and doing photography, and worked professionally as a dancer.  I have just published two small books on Amazon.  I hope to share what I learned care giving my mama for ten years, and make the job easier for the giver and receiver.

The past seven years have been really difficult as during that time I had some horrific incidents.  I broke both wrists (my left one twice), and my leg.  I had a total hip replacement and a hysterectomy.   My sister told me if I didn’t do anything (like riding bikes and athletic things) I wouldn’t break anything!  I have always been high-energy and love life.
I still do.

During these healing times, I used every bit of information I shared with others when I taught.  I did not help heal them, but only tried to give what I was given, and really, God was the healer at the core of it all.  I am still using the techniques and “believe” I am better and better every day.

I have two websites (stressmanagementmagic.com and marshajobrien.com – “Relax, it’s just life”.)  Because of circumstances you’ll read below, my writing is limited to sitting for half hour stints at the computer.

My husband is a champion of men.  He works as head shop mechanic and fixes everything for his company – including huge machinery that has been sitting in the sun during our 114-117 temperatures.  After work he took care of all of my responsibilities and me!  He still does! Two and one half years ago I had a fall and broke my back.  He works very hard to support and provide for us.

“Circumstances” took my back to a very serious level and I had a burst compression fracture, and two serious neurosurgeries.  I am now disabled, but not complaining about it…it is just a fact. I am happy to be alive and walking.

Because I am unable to work, as my disability took away my physical health and endurance, I am unable to kayak, do outdoor photography, hike, and play with my eight grandchildren or my dogs.  In other wards it changed my life. But more than that, it has changed my husband’s life forever.
One of my doctors suggested I have my own stem cells “transplanted” to my body to heal my hip  (yes, my other hip needs replacement).  I think I wore the hips out dancing and teaching high intensity aerobics, but I believe my work helped so many people I do not regret one minute of it.

I have done my homework and I ABSOLUTELY want the procedure that helps my body to help itself.  It is not FDA approved, as they are unable to approve the body healing itself.  Surprise, surprise, surprise!  :)

Because Medicare and AARP won’t cover the procedure, I don’t believe I will be able to do this unless a miracle happens.

It would take longer to heal than a surgery, and no one knows if it will heal me 100% – but I believe it will be amazing, and if it works for me, I could be living proof that stem cell replacement really works.  Innately I feel that it will help many different things happening in my body.

This procedure might be able to help my disabilities that are invisible to others, but plague me every moment of my life.

Stem cell replacement is a major anti-inflammatory. Studies give hope to those with spinal cord injuries (such as myself) cancer patients, and the millions with arthritis. Perhaps it could help not only my children and grandchildren, but also many people! This is just the beginning…..who knows what miracles may come!

As a person who has always believed the body is a wonderful healing mechanism, I dream of being able to get this stem cell procedure.

I only became aware of this website recently, through an acquaintance who suggested my cause was important. I thought it was a miracle to find her and this website. Perhaps this can be the purpose of my life now that my life is so radically changed.
That is my story.  Because my back injuries changed my life forever, I know life can change in a moment.  I know life can’t always be the way I would wish it, but I have high hopes and great expectations.

Thank you for your time and consideration.  If you wish to make a donation go to http://www.gofundme.com/stemcellmiracles

This seems to be a “non-hero” action by John McCain. A friend I trust sent me this.

July 22, 2015

I think our politicians and leaders are the only ones in the world who sell out their own Native people by selling our country out from all of us.  It does make me sick.  I love my country.

Katniss is real, and she is an Apache.11742702_840554335992441_9171768963361075980_n

While we were all looking the other way, sacred Apache land (that was also property of the American people as a whole) was sold to an Australian-British mining company that will soon have the rights to leave a 2-mile crater in the area. How did this happen? Senators John McCain and Jeff Flake slipped the deal in at the last minute at the bottom of a much-needed military defense spending bill. Apache have been camped out on the sacred site of Oak Flat ever since, and this young warrior, along with a handful of others, traveled to NYC all the way from Arizona to try to bring attention to her people’s plight.

Let’s help this story spread and let this real life rebel know that she is not alone, and that the American people won’t stand for this betrayal to us all.

Petition: https://secure.avaaz.org/…/stand_with_the_apache_global_l…/…

Article: http://www.nytimes.com/…/opinion/selling-off-apache-holy-la

Celebrate!

July 18, 2015

This is the moment!  CELEBRATE the moment as it is the only guaranteed thing we have.  That statement is not negative, but the truth.

I am not going to allow any media frenzy, personal problem, or anything – usurp the moments of the day.

I see wisps of clouds.  I see a blue sky.  I see these faces upon waking.  My darling husband has already left for work…as you can see, my 5 year old is trying to get past the puppy to say hello.  The puppy wants to be first!

Gosh, and my kiddos are grown with kiddos.  I loved having my kiddos home.  I love my doggies!

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Life is the best thing I’ve ever known!

And if you think I couldn’t be raging mad, enveloped with sadness and depression, or flat lined – you would be wrong.  It takes practice to be happy.

Pardon me, I have to go practice for the entire weekend.  NOW SMILE and LOVE YOURSELF by taking care of some “fun” stuff!  Blessings by the ton to you all from a perfect (well, I am far from perfect – hee-hee) stranger.

As my kids say, “I couldn’t be any stranger!”  Wow I found my funny bone this morning.  Yahoo.

Here is a bouquet for you!

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……I’m Just saying

July 17, 2015

…………………………..I’m just saying

Statistics can mean something, as long as they are from qualified, and multiple sources. The “small sampling” ones are just advertisements and not representative of anything but people trying to put their ideas into the mind, as if they are a majority. Not so subtle brain-washing. The media does it every day and in every way.

Did a bit of research and these statistics seem to be reputable. Found them quite interesting. By the way, if ever you and I meet and are the types of people who can carry on a conversation without bullying and degrading another’s platforms, I will be happy to share with you my beliefs and philosophy regarding my life. I will not argue on line, nor degrade another’s beliefs.
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2015
Current statistics: 321,043,000 million people reside in the USA.

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There are 770,000 same-sex couples living in the United States.

9 million (3.8%) of Americans identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender.

33 states opposed same sex marriage.

California residents voted three times for no same sex marriage.

Gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender scenarios will be taught in schools.

The Supreme Court decided for all of us, that ALL states recognize same-sex marriage.

.03 percent are transgender.

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36 states opted out of mandatory Obamacare.

The Supreme Court decided, for all of us, Obamacare will be recognized in all states.

8.7 million people will receive a monthly subsidy of $272.00 for their premium.

Working citizens will receive nothing.

The Governor of CA. has just made it impossible for children to attend school
unless they are completely vaccinated. (There was no mention of who will pay for those who are illegal aliens or are unable to pay because of poverty).

The right is no longer a right for parents to accept or deny vaccines.

No matter what your spiritual beliefs, vaccines will be required in CA.

It is now legal for residents of the state of CA. to collect rainwater. (Yes, it actually was illegal).

Californians with water wells on their own land will soon be taxed for usage.

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The votes that citizens in many states do not matter. Anything can be changed by the people who “rule” the laws of the land.

We did not VOTE for the Supreme Court Justices. Those on the Supreme Court have lifetime jobs, with perks of course.

The Supreme Court is the highest court in the nation, so if rule on something, or they say jump, we are forced to ask,
“how high?”.
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The projected cost of the high speed railway to be built is *68 billion dollars – From LA to SF. This is the most expensive
public works project in United States history.
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The cost to repair roads and highways in CA. is 40. million.

To build a desalination plant that provides 50 million gallons of water a day in CA. would cost 1 billion.

We are in our fourth year of drought.

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I HAVE AN IDEA!*  I’m just saying…..

An Eclectic Post

July 7, 2015

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6 weeks old – Axel Bear

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4 months old – Axel Bear

Cherish your pets. They are gifts to us and are really great friends. They depend upon us. They are precious.

If something breaks don’t sweat it. Material things come and go. Our human counterparts are the “things” we must take care not to break with our words, or our actions.

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Material things can (and usually are) replaceable. Even if they are a cherished item that gets broken – just look in the eyes of the person you are upset with and remember words are like double-edged swords-they go directly to the heart. For women sometimes they remain there for years. It is sad, but true.

Here is the tip for the day. Don’t forget to pierce the potato your are going to bake. Just a few with a fork or small pokes with a paring knife. If you do that your potato won’t blow up! (I forgot!)

potatoPlease say a prayer for those who are homeless because they are just unable to do anything else – no matter what the reason.  If they are on drugs they need prayers.  If they are “takers” they need prayers.  If they have lost everything in a fire or flood – they need prayers.  Be generous with your prayers as we all need them and there is absolutely no charge to pray!  Remember with time and circumstance it could be any one of us in need.  Be grateful for every moment and every thing!

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Create a beautiful day for you and your family and friends. Does anyone remember the song “This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine…..”?

We all have that light within. Just prompt it to release in the form of a smile, a kind deed or word, or better yet, a great big hug.

Cherish yourself!  So often it takes years to really learn that one!  Somehow I felt cute as a button a few days ago, so I took my first selfie.  (heeheee ) Felt kind of silly, but I hope you can see the joy in my heart.   1st selfieIt still seems really TOO FUNNY to take and post a photo of myself – but I did it anyway!  Pheww! That’s off my bucket list now.  LOL  I know – must be a pretty dumb bucket list!

I can’t stand it.  I have to tell you.  I stood in front of a fan to have that wind blown look.  I don’t know why it still makes me laugh!  That is the silly child within me.

I send hugs and love and blessings to all my family and friends. I don’t take the time often enough to tell each one of you individually how much I love you – so here it is –

I love you! You KNOW who you are…now let’s have a giant air hug!

An URGENT PLEA

July 4, 2015

I never ask for money!  I may have put a “donate” tag somewhere, but it’s not important to my writing.    I AM asking for donations today and here are the reasons why.  I have a very close friend in Redding that knows this young woman.  She said she is a lovely woman who shares blessings with others.  She has an immediate need!annies journey

I copied this from the website: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/annie-s-journey#/

Please go to the site – read the story – and donate!  I know we are all stretched beyond limit, but look closely at these children and their sweet little mama.  She needs help and all the prayers she can get.  Take a few moments from your life to do something wonderful!  I may be disabled, but her prognosis is much more heart-breaking.

Even if you donate $5.00, every penny will help.  I promise you will feel better in your hearts knowing that you’ve done what you can.  I am donating and I hope you do too.  “As ye give, so shall ye receive”….

God bless you all, and God bless this little woman and her beautiful family.


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